May - Preparation for Singles Summer Resiliency

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At some point in many single’s life, you may find yourself with a nagging feeling that somehow you are lacking in something. You could very well get caught in the “if only …” mode that undermines the happiness of singles and diminishes resiliency. When are you more prone to this? Well, each person has their own perceptions, experiences and vulnerabilities.  It could be that you have just ended a relationship, others around you are getting married or maybe you’ve been let go from your job.

Singles targeting personal wellness, can achieve greater peace when they move from “if only” to “it is, now what”. There are certain things that you will never have the answers to and longing means that you are unable to appreciate your existing gifts and opportunities.  This can rob you of so much in your life and shatter your being. Assess what is at the foundation of this mindset and start cleaning up from there. Your unhealthy garbage should be dumped once and for all leaving room for you to start your journey light.

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May - Preparation for Singles Summer Resiliency

Children love to pretend that they can’t be seen

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When we were little, invisibility was something we secretly wished for but as we get older, we yearn to see and be seen. This is because we want to belong or at least be part of something we believe in but it can get harder over time.

Most often, in order for some singles to feel accepted, compromises are made even to things which has the potential to hurt the most. The fear of losing someone, for example, can lead to making unjustified efforts to ensure they are comfortable and all their whims are met. But do you know that by doing this, you lose their respect? You may be all too familiar with those who claim to love someone but they are not afraid to hurt that same person as well since they know you will gladly accept everything from them.

Be Your Best Defense

Yes, being single can present its challenges (if of course you perceive it as such) but it is much better than losing yourself all together. You owe this to yourself and don’t let anyone take it away from you. Remember, you are the master of your own life; don’t let anyone step on your toes.Stand tall singles!
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