June - Singles Summer Resiliency

“My best is yet to come” Resilient Singles Believe It and Challenge Others Who Say Otherwise

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Your Best is Yet to Come! Believe it, shout it and accept nothing less.

So many singles (like everyone) get stuck in a state of just living.  The challenge of life and future aspirations has been neatly tucked away to a place where it is rarely visited or even remembered.  Although I am the first one to emphasize that soloists need to recognize all that they have achieved, I still think that a healthy perspective includes a desire and vision for consistent growth.  Your body, mind and spirit can never reach its final potential while you remain on this earth. There is always more to learn and new potentials to discover.

What will you do today to uncover and step towards your personal and professional best? Pick up a new book? Join a new club? Apply for a new position? Develop your business plan? Work on your communication skills for social events? Establish new financial targets? For some singles, the answer to moving towards your best could be very easy to identify.  For others, your potential treasure might be a bit deeper in the archives. It is worth the mission. Your best is a lifetime goal worthy of your attention.

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June - Singles Summer Resiliency

Resilient Singles Know What is Best for Them and Do Not Settle For Less

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Questioning What You Have- It`s Not Always Easy

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Unfortunately, we don’t always choose the right person for us even though the attraction
was strong at first. You might be in a relationship for a while before you realize that the
person you are with is the wrong person for you. Now what do you do? The big
question is whether or not you should walk away with the chance that you might be
alone or find someone who is less compatible than the person you walked away from.
This takes some honest soul-searching and only you can decide if you are in a
relationship for the wrong reasons or if your true rhythm is being inhibited.

Resiliency truly comes into question when you are faced with this situation. It takes a strong person to recognize that the relationship you are in is unsuitable for you or destructive in some way. Many couples will tell you that they have faced this crossroad at some point, however they realized that certain issues needed to be addressed and that the relationship overall was positive.  These are some of the questions that we all must ask at some point. Am I in the right relationship for me? Is this relationship inhibiting my growth and expression? Am I staying because I do not want to be alone?
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June - Singles Summer Resiliency

Make sure it’s right, then make it more resilient

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As the warm and vibrant hues of the summer give way to the more subdued palette of fall, some singles may find that their sizzling summer romance begins to show signs of simmering.  The foundation for a lasting relationship can be developed by considering three stages that nurture long-term stability.  They are:

1.      Casual - Singles need to remember that in the beginning a comfortable and casual exchange of information, interests and experiences. Very few individuals respond positively to an over/under dater. Show interest in the “water” but do not dive in too the deep.

2.      Core - After dating for some time, singles can proceed to the next level in solidifying their relationships. Consider more of what is at the core of your partner.  Delve deeper into his/her mind in addition to the merits of the relationship.  Ask more questions of yourself and your happiness within the relationship and ask more questions of the other person.

3.      Connections - Start establishing rituals and connecting features for the relationship. What days will you spend together? What activities and events will you continue to attend together?

In the beginning, it can be challenging to transition from the more relaxed schedules present in the summer months, plentiful outdoor activities and elevated spirits that flow naturally through the summer breeze, to the differences that fall can bring about.  People tend to socialize less and return to regular work activity levels. If you start with the right base, a relationship that is worthwhile will stand the test of time. So, approach summer with enthusiasm and if you happen to meet someone special, refer to these tips to improve your summer romance resiliency.
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