Magnificent You - Connect with the Love Inside You

“The most crucial relationship is the one that you possess with yourself. If you are depriving yourself in this area, guess what? Others will naturally follow suit. Your foundation of self-love must be rock solid for you to attract relationships that complement and enhance your vision and values in life. Contrary to popular belief, it does not work in the reverse. There are so many people who, often unknowingly, bring into their lives the very things that are undeveloped in themselves.” ~ Singles Guide to Greatness

Sometimes, improving the way we interact with others requires that we find freedom from the past issues that are impediments to our personal best. That is why I encourage individuals to focus on revising life stories to that which acknowledges and brings peace where there has been turmoil or an impasse. You don’t have to be a product of your past and let your life happen to you. Remember, you are now “driving this great life”. Start with a deep and unshakable love from within.

Affirmation for Reuniting with the Love Within: I know love. I am love. I share love. Healthy love originates from the strength of the love that exists within.

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June - Singles Summer Resiliency

Make sure it’s right, then make it more resilient

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As the warm and vibrant hues of the summer give way to the more subdued palette of fall, some singles may find that their sizzling summer romance begins to show signs of simmering.  The foundation for a lasting relationship can be developed by considering three stages that nurture long-term stability.  They are:

1.      Casual - Singles need to remember that in the beginning a comfortable and casual exchange of information, interests and experiences. Very few individuals respond positively to an over/under dater. Show interest in the “water” but do not dive in too the deep.

2.      Core - After dating for some time, singles can proceed to the next level in solidifying their relationships. Consider more of what is at the core of your partner.  Delve deeper into his/her mind in addition to the merits of the relationship.  Ask more questions of yourself and your happiness within the relationship and ask more questions of the other person.

3.      Connections - Start establishing rituals and connecting features for the relationship. What days will you spend together? What activities and events will you continue to attend together?

In the beginning, it can be challenging to transition from the more relaxed schedules present in the summer months, plentiful outdoor activities and elevated spirits that flow naturally through the summer breeze, to the differences that fall can bring about.  People tend to socialize less and return to regular work activity levels. If you start with the right base, a relationship that is worthwhile will stand the test of time. So, approach summer with enthusiasm and if you happen to meet someone special, refer to these tips to improve your summer romance resiliency.
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April New Growth - How Are Singles Growing?

Personal Growth within Healthy Relationships You are strong and deserving of the right relationship.  If you are on the wrong route, grab the first cab out of there!

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New growth for singles often involves changes to significant relationships.  It is very hard to live at your potential when you are weighed down by an unhealthy network of people.  So what can you do?  Change it!  It sounds so easy but moving on from a personal relationship can be one of the hardest endeavours of all.  I can definitely relate!  There were many years when I rationalized and tried to fix issues in my relationships that, at that time, became a burden to my spirit.

Finally, I changed it. It is so easy to become a victim to habits, even when they fail to work for you.  If, during this month of new growth, you recognize that you are stuck in a rut with a bad relationship, make yourself a self-love oath to bid it farewell.

April New Growth

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