June - Singles Summer Resiliency

“My best is yet to come” Resilient Singles Believe It and Challenge Others Who Say Otherwise

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Your Best is Yet to Come! Believe it, shout it and accept nothing less.

So many singles (like everyone) get stuck in a state of just living.  The challenge of life and future aspirations has been neatly tucked away to a place where it is rarely visited or even remembered.  Although I am the first one to emphasize that soloists need to recognize all that they have achieved, I still think that a healthy perspective includes a desire and vision for consistent growth.  Your body, mind and spirit can never reach its final potential while you remain on this earth. There is always more to learn and new potentials to discover.

What will you do today to uncover and step towards your personal and professional best? Pick up a new book? Join a new club? Apply for a new position? Develop your business plan? Work on your communication skills for social events? Establish new financial targets? For some singles, the answer to moving towards your best could be very easy to identify.  For others, your potential treasure might be a bit deeper in the archives. It is worth the mission. Your best is a lifetime goal worthy of your attention.

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June - Singles Summer Resiliency

Resilient Singles Know What is Best for Them and Do Not Settle For Less

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Questioning What You Have- It`s Not Always Easy

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Unfortunately, we don’t always choose the right person for us even though the attraction
was strong at first. You might be in a relationship for a while before you realize that the
person you are with is the wrong person for you. Now what do you do? The big
question is whether or not you should walk away with the chance that you might be
alone or find someone who is less compatible than the person you walked away from.
This takes some honest soul-searching and only you can decide if you are in a
relationship for the wrong reasons or if your true rhythm is being inhibited.

Resiliency truly comes into question when you are faced with this situation. It takes a strong person to recognize that the relationship you are in is unsuitable for you or destructive in some way. Many couples will tell you that they have faced this crossroad at some point, however they realized that certain issues needed to be addressed and that the relationship overall was positive.  These are some of the questions that we all must ask at some point. Am I in the right relationship for me? Is this relationship inhibiting my growth and expression? Am I staying because I do not want to be alone?
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At some point in many single’s life, you may find yourself with a nagging feeling that somehow you are lacking in something. You could very well get caught in the “if only …” mode that undermines the happiness of singles and diminishes resiliency. When are you more prone to this? Well, each person has their own perceptions, experiences and vulnerabilities.  It could be that you have just ended a relationship, others around you are getting married or maybe you’ve been let go from your job.

Singles targeting personal wellness, can achieve greater peace when they move from “if only” to “it is, now what”. There are certain things that you will never have the answers to and longing means that you are unable to appreciate your existing gifts and opportunities.  This can rob you of so much in your life and shatter your being. Assess what is at the foundation of this mindset and start cleaning up from there. Your unhealthy garbage should be dumped once and for all leaving room for you to start your journey light.

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Children love to pretend that they can’t be seen

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When we were little, invisibility was something we secretly wished for but as we get older, we yearn to see and be seen. This is because we want to belong or at least be part of something we believe in but it can get harder over time.

Most often, in order for some singles to feel accepted, compromises are made even to things which has the potential to hurt the most. The fear of losing someone, for example, can lead to making unjustified efforts to ensure they are comfortable and all their whims are met. But do you know that by doing this, you lose their respect? You may be all too familiar with those who claim to love someone but they are not afraid to hurt that same person as well since they know you will gladly accept everything from them.

Be Your Best Defense

Yes, being single can present its challenges (if of course you perceive it as such) but it is much better than losing yourself all together. You owe this to yourself and don’t let anyone take it away from you. Remember, you are the master of your own life; don’t let anyone step on your toes.Stand tall singles!
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