Posts Tagged ‘Resiliency’

Questioning What You Have

Thursday, June 11th, 2009

June - Singles Summer Resiliency

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Resilient Singles Know What is Best for Them and Do Not Settle For Less

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Questioning What You Have- It`s Not Always Easy

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Unfortunately, we don’t always choose the right person for us even though the attraction
was strong at first. You might be in a relationship for a while before you realize that the
person you are with is the wrong person for you. Now what do you do? The big
question is whether or not you should walk away with the chance that you might be
alone or find someone who is less compatible than the person you walked away from.
This takes some honest soul-searching and only you can decide if you are in a
relationship for the wrong reasons or if your true rhythm is being inhibited.

Resiliency truly comes into question when you are faced with this situation. It takes a strong person to recognize that the relationship you are in is unsuitable for you or destructive in some way. Many couples will tell you that they have faced this crossroad at some point, however they realized that certain issues needed to be addressed and that the relationship overall was positive.  These are some of the questions that we all must ask at some point. Am I in the right relationship for me? Is this relationship inhibiting my growth and expression? Am I staying because I do not want to be alone?
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If only…

Tuesday, May 19th, 2009

May - Preparation for Singles Summer Resiliency

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At some point in many single’s life, you may find yourself with a nagging feeling that somehow you are lacking in something. You could very well get caught in the “if only …” mode that undermines the happiness of singles and diminishes resiliency. When are you more prone to this? Well, each person has their own perceptions, experiences and vulnerabilities.  It could be that you have just ended a relationship, others around you are getting married or maybe you’ve been let go from your job.

Singles targeting personal wellness, can achieve greater peace when they move from “if only” to “it is, now what”. There are certain things that you will never have the answers to and longing means that you are unable to appreciate your existing gifts and opportunities.  This can rob you of so much in your life and shatter your being. Assess what is at the foundation of this mindset and start cleaning up from there. Your unhealthy garbage should be dumped once and for all leaving room for you to start your journey light.

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