Posts Tagged ‘singles coach’

Love What You Do

Friday, March 11th, 2011

Magnificent You - Live It with Love

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Choose to embrace your activities with zest!

I was traveling on Bayview Ave. in the midst of morning traffic and remembered that I needed gas. I thought for a moment about the time that it would likely take to get back onto the busy street when I was done. Then I reminded myself that it was a minor matter - patience is the lesson. I pulled up to the pump and turned off the engine. As I reached for the door handle I glanced at a sign hanging on the pump saying “Pay at the pump not working. Please pay inside”. Now the former me would have turned that engine right back on and drove to the next convenient pump that allowed me to pump-and-run. I was stopped by a voice that said “take the time to go inside”. Again the lesson was patience (and others that I didn’t immediately recognize).

I pumped the gas, put up my hood to protect my hair from the rain and went in to pay. the clerk at the counter said “twenty dollars please”.

“Can I also get ten dollars of lotto max?” I asked.

“Ten dollars for the winning tickets” he sang in a very off tone but with joy. “She wants ten dollars” his song continued.

By this time I was laughing at this entertaining attention to my gas and lottery purchases. He continued to sing every response until I had my receipt and tickets and his final notes accompanied his words “have a good day”.

I smiled all the way to my destination and thought about how, no matter what you do, you can choose to do it with a sincere love for the opportunity to contribute your gifts to the world.  It really is magical how each person gives of themselves in so many unique ways. You give to yourself by bringing out your passion and you extend that passion to those you come into contact with. So my questions for you are: Do you love what you do? Can you shift your mindset to love what you do? How can the love of what you do be shared with others?

Affirmation for Loving What You Do: Today I recognize the moments that I have been given to appreciate the potential for my bliss and for others.

Does a New Year Mean a New You?

Monday, January 3rd, 2011

Magnificent You Series - New Year…New You?

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Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars and to change the world.

- Harriet Tubman

The way of the Creative works through change and transformation, so that each thing receives its true nature and destiny and comes into permanent accord with the Great Harmony: this is what furthers and what perseveres. ~Alexandar Pope

As we welcome 2011, many people are asking themselves “Does a New Year mean that a new me is required?” My belief is that our lives exist for the primary purpose of constant growth in a variety of unique ways. The beginning of a new year might provide the stimulus for change, but anytime that you step forward in the direction of your potential you’re contributing to the most magnificent you possible.  The movement doesn’t require a complete overhaul or represent major life decisions. It might be conscious attention to enhance daily habits that nourishes, revitalizes or restores your mind, body, and spirit. Think of your life as an adventure where new discoveries add to your present experience - as long as you are willing to embrace movement as part of the process.

“What are you willing to reduce, remove or revise to advance your potential?” ~ Singles Guide to Greatness

Why Some Give Up

Tuesday, November 30th, 2010

Magnificent You Series - Why Some Give Up

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DON’T GIVE UP

When the world says, “Give up”
Hope whispers, “Try it one more time.”
~Author Unknown

Top 3 Reasons That People Give Up:

1. It seems easier to continue in the same habits

2. Fear of failure

3. Inability to see immediate results

Seeking to bring out your personal best will require that you engage in alternate patterns of living. For many, this journey appears to be more daunting than the ineffective (and often limiting) circumstances that currently exists. Your “muted” self is content to live with safe modes and monotony. But will this reveal the greatness within you?

Nurture your dreams. Reach for higher possibilities. We were created to develop to our greatest potentials. Don’t give up before you experience the thrill of victory!

The Magnificent You seeks patience and perseverance #SGTG

What Tiger Woods Teaches Singles

Sunday, December 13th, 2009

Singles Intuitive Series - How Are Singles Guided?

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As you know, I’m not one to jump on the celebrity gossip trail but I am the first one to highlight lessons to be learned from those who are visible to many. Most people have some sort of reaction to the stories that reach the media - Tiger Woods is no exception.

Infidelity is rarely a complete surprise (particularly at the alleged numbers reported). Many wonder…Did she see the signs? Did she dismiss the cues that her inner wisdom was likely sending to her in the form of physical or emotional uneasiness? Did she believe that he would change through the love they shared?

Single men and women can use this unfortunate experience as a reminder to the importance of having a defined path for significant relationships. Despite the great qualities of any individual, if there are critical deal breakers that arise, you can choose to let go of the risk and stay on a path that will lead you where you envision your life to be-as opposed to someone selecting your destiny.

What About Intuition?

It is said that women in particular live in a more emotional dimension. We are powerfully tapped into our hunches. A woman’s intuition is her inner guidance. The skill of reading yourself, what feels right/wrong is key for all singles. Believe in them. When you feel a certain way stop and give thought to how you are feeling. I know that some singles find themselves confused by past experiences (vs current realities). You wonder if you are over-reacting based on what has happened before and it causes people to minimize the presenting issues. Get some feedback, check the core of your revelation and make a decision. Even if the decision is to step back and/or address the concern.

The overall message is for singles to enter relationships that are defined by your vision, values and best suited for your soul. There is so much more at stake when you deny yourself all that you deserve.

I wish the Woods family all the best as they take steps to resolve this tragedy in the way that they feel is best for them. I wish all singles the power to establish their chosen path with confidence and commitment to those things that enhance the journey to growth and splendor!

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